The Difference between Winning and Losing

Sometimes there is a fine line between winning and losing in life.

I’ve met people who have been abused, downtrodden and come from terrible background make wonderful lives for themselves and I’ve met people who have been given significant advantages and opportunities act like victims.

Most often, it’s not circumstances, but attitudes that define people and over the past few years, I’ve identified some key points that separate victors and victims:

1. Victors take responsibility when things go wrong – victims look for someone else to blame.

2. Victors look ahead with optimism and hope – victims see the future as a dark and scary place.

3. Victors see talented people as potential team-mates – victims see them as potential threats.

4. Victors are aware of their need to continue to develop and grow – victims think that life would be better if only everyone else would develop and grow.

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